Have you ever wondered if he hates you? Maybe you've been in a situation where he's acting a bit off or not like his usual self, and you can't help but wonder if it has something to do with how he feels about you. Fear not, dear reader - we're here to help guide you through 10 signs that might indicate whether or not your guy is harboring some resentment towards you.
Sign #1: He avoids eye contact
Eye contact is crucial in any healthy relationship. If your partner seems to be avoiding looking at you directly, there's a good chance that they might have some negative feelings towards the person behind those eyes. Maybe they're too embarrassed or ashamed of something they've done lately; maybe they simply don't want to look at the source of their anger.
Sign #2: He's always busy
If your significant other suddenly starts becoming "too busy" for things they once loved doing together − such as dinner dates, weekend getaways or long phone chats on the weekends− then this could mean serious trouble brewing beneath the surface. After all, people only make time for what's important to them.
Sign #3: He takes forever to call back
You know what really hurts? Getting ignored by someone who should always have our back – especially when it comes from someone who claims to love us. If he frequently takes hours/days/a week-plus (yes!) longer than please excuse him ‘cause chances are IT'S DELIBERATE!!
Sign #4: Everything turns into an argument
If every conversation quickly devolves into an argument – whether it’s related specifically TO THE PARTICULAR TOPIC OR NOT– and arguments keep popping up even after trivial matters are resolved YOU REALLY NEED TO PAY ATTENTION NOW because sign number four is probably manifesting itself onto your relationship.
Sign #5: You're always at fault
In the event of an argument, does your partner constantly make you feel like everything is YOUR fault? It's important to remember that relationships are made up of two people, and it’s never just one person that causes problems. Your guilt therefore stems from him perceiving your actions as irritating than his ability to take accountability.
Sign #6: He doesn't laugh anymore
Laughter has been hailed as perhaps the greatest indicator of happiness − we tend not chuckle if miserable OR DURING/ IN A SETTING OF STRESS- so if he hasn’t cracked a joke since who knows when or HAS UNFAVOURABLY CHANGED HIS NORMALLY ENTHUSIASTIC MOOD post dis-agreement please note this could be more worrisome than meets the eye.
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Take a Look:
But let's face it; life can get boring sometimes. Does he usually seem unmoved by funny jokes or fun times with friends/family lately? Is he incapable of joining in on sarcastic jabs AT SITUATIONS where before was something you’d regularly do together?
Sign #7: No communication
If your conversations have turned into nothing but grunts (or lack thereof/unresponsiveness) then it might be time for some honest self-reflection +sitting-down-&-addressing-each-other-concerns(eeek!). Communication after all, is key for any successful relationship; there must be open lines in order to air out grievances/frustrations outside arguments too because exhausting fights rarely help anyone.
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Add This To The Picture(You'll Get Our Point):
If you try talking about your problems/blessings WITH enthusiasm seeking reassurance from him &it turns to deaf cells even though y'all had scheduled TO “talk things through" or "catch-up", better ditch those rose-tinted sunglasses or you'll trip.
Sign #8: He spends more time with friends
Yes, it's possible that he just needs some 'guy-time', but if he's consistently blowing off plans YOU MAKE/DISPELLED SEEMED IMPORTANT/saying "Later, girl!" (cruel!); then something might be amiss. Happy couples who have healthy relationships are mindful of their partner’s social life too so talk to him!
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Then again:
The moment your FOMO turns into insecurities because HE'S ALWAYS INVOLVED w/ other things while once [sic] you’d even share interests together means this is probably not about making whole family memories but keeping distance between the 2 of y'al.
Sign #9: You feel like you’re walking on eggshells
Toxic/toxic-like environments can manifest themselves in many ways; one common way is feeling awkward around your boo. If every convo seems strained/hesitant/uncomfortable OR YOU'RE HESITANT TO SHOW EXPRESS YOURSELF in fear of his potential reaction, then uh-oh...runnnn!!!
## Sign #10: Avoidance techniques Strange behavior such as consistently canceling plans already made and staying out late without explanation despite prior warnings could be a sign for alarm bells ringing ???? . He may try & avoid seeing + talking with you behind “busy schedules” – when once there weren’t any excuses at all.
In conclusion,
It's important to note these signs are only suggestive in terms of what COULD mean animosity ["is love enough?"]; don't jump straight conclusions yet! Sometimes stress from external sources leads people struggling emotionally which creates angry vibes ultimately tied back to your relationship or maybe depression issues within etc proving the spectrum broadens considerably hence seek advice/counseling from an authorized body instead pointing fingers strictly blaming him. Ultimately, you have to know your worth and realize that (at the very least) RESPECT IS A BARE MINIMUM in all respectful RELATIONSHIPS (“I am sorry” doesn’t automatically shield from harm). Having a chat is never a bad idea either, only so you can be assured things are status quo. So check again: does he hate you? Do yourself a favor and find out now!