Have you ever set a goal for yourself only to lose motivation and give up halfway through? If so, don't worry, it happens to the best of us. What separates those who achieve their goals from those who don't is simple - they show up.
Showing Up: The Key Ingredient for Success
You may be thinking, "Well duh, of course I need to show up if I want to achieve my goals." But hear me out - showing up isn't just about physically being there. It's about commitment and consistency. Showing up means making your goal a top priority and taking action towards it every single day.
Consistency is King
Consistency is key when it comes to achieving any goal. You can't expect results overnight or after one week of effort. In fact, studies have shown that it takes an average of 66 days for a new habit to become automatic [1]. This means that in order to make progress towards your goal, you need to consistently work towards it every day for at least two months.
Create Healthy Habits
One way to ensure consistency is by creating healthy habits that align with your goals. For example, if your goal is to run a marathon but you hate running early in the morning , then waking up at 5am everyday will feel like torture and eventually break down motivation because starting with activities we know well boosts dopamine levels . However , you can start by setting realistic expectations such as running three times per week before or after work . Depending on personal schedule constraints . By doing this regularly , even as little as 10 mins/day (to begin with) further increased gradually over weeks lead measures such as improved lung capacity enable longer endurance which allows minor adjustments being added while solidifying practices/habits leading closer getting ready for long marathons.
The Power of Commitment
Commitment is another essential ingredient when it comes to achieving your goals. It means making a promise to yourself that you will do whatever it takes to succeed - even when times get tough or obstacles arise.
Setting Intentions
An effective way to boost your commitment levels is by setting intentions every morning . This involves asking ourselves why did I set this goal in the first place ? How does meeting /achieving my set goal make me feel? Can I be resilient especially on those low days when anxiety/depression seeps in?
Hold Yourself Accountable
Accountability can also increase our sense of commitment level- Lets debunk one Myth here , Accountability isn't just about punishing ourselves (as some people tend to think) but more importantly, rewarding small achievements and commending oneself for trying again after failing instead.
Overcoming Roadblocks: What To Do When You Want Give Up
Despite our best efforts, there may come a time where we begin losing motivation towards our goals.Difficulties such as distractions, unexpected responsibilities or life changes are inevitable and almost guaranteed . Therefore some firms have started implementing resilience training as part of employee programs/outreach planned over quarters conducted virtually if remote working .
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Seeking Support Systems
For certain tougher circumstances undergoing chronic pain/chronic fatigue/injury affecting physical and mental abilities significantly disrupts momentum. Seeking healthcare experts in such situations even virtually for guidance, therapeutic massages, psychological therapy sessions helps maintain focus stay encouraged even during tough times knowing one isn’t alone as conditions vary from patient to patient; especially accelerated by the global pandemic . It's okay to take a break when it is required without feeling like one will be judged or ostracised.
In Conclusion
Whether your goal is to lose weight, start a business or learn a new skill - showing up consistently and committing to yourself are nonnegotiable elements of success.Thus keeping track of significance set goals is key factor any person with drive would want therefore accountability aids the likelihood ultimate success becoming reality .
Don't let setbacks discourage you but aim at enjoying rather than merely enduring progressive achievements towards chosen goals. Consistency may feel much harder while in process takes stamina& determination resolute mindset possibilities can become actualities through practice,toil.and resilience.
So go ahead – show up! We’re rooting for you!
Disclaimer: This article provides general advice only and does not replace the need for individual health or professional advice where appropriate.
[1] Lally P., Van Jaarsveld C.H.M., Potts H.W.W., & Wardle J. (2010). How habits are formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world. European Journal Of Social Psychology, 40(6), 998-1009.doi: 10.1002/ejsp.674